Frequently Asked Questions
Who sees a professional cuddler?
People of all ages, genders, identities, orientations, abilities and cultural backgrounds. People between romantic relationships and want to approach future connections from a place of desire rather than from a place of lack.
What kinds of things will I feel in a session?
It may feel a little awkward at first which is completely normal, as this is new territory and you are trying something different. You will most likely feel vulnerable as you are getting out of your comfort zone, again this is normal. Then, as you become present, your body will slowly start dropping into relaxation. When a person feels accepted and loved in a safe space, the body has the potential to feel comforted, nourished, soothed, nurtured, calm and refreshed.
What happens if I get aroused?
This is a normal and natural way your body may respond to touch. I don’t shame it. Acknowledging the feeling is important. I expect clients to exercise self-control and what you say and/or do is the most important thing. I respectfully ask that you do not encourage, entertain or act on it. Shifting positions, taking a break, stretching and/or talking can all help get back to the calm relaxing feeling.
What does cuddling look like?
There is no right or wrong way to cuddle. If it feels good and it is consensual, mutual touch then there can be as little or as much touch as you like. It can be as simple as holding hands or sitting side by side, to full embracing and body contact, if that feels right. There are many different cuddle poses, but the session is focused on feeling into your body to tap into and discover how it wants to be touched or held.
What are the benefits of Cuddling session?
It can boost your immune system, increase the happy hormone Oxytocin, lower blood pressure and stress levels. A person can feel a richness of connection and of feeling “seen” and “heard.”
Be aware that there is a euphoric feeling that can linger after a session ends. The body is on what is considered a “natural high” due to the nurturing you have received and a visceral sense of connection you will experience from cuddling. Your body is in an altered state with your blood chemistry producing oxytocin which acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain. Sometimes following a session, you might experience an “intimacy hangover.” This should not be alarming but usually occurs when a client has an emotional come down from an oxytocin high. Be gentle with yourself.
Other people may notice some positive side effects. People in your life may notice that you look more relaxed and perhaps even look younger. You could develop a clarity in your interactions like never before. Communication goes more smoothly when you become more confident about expressing your own needs while respecting the needs of others.